8 Financial Steps to Prioritize During a Divorce

Learn what financial steps to prioritize during a divorce, including calculating net worth, freezing certain assets, reviewing beneficiaries, and more.
January 13, 2026Chris Kawashima

Divorce impacts many areas of life, including your finances. Though every divorce is unique and there isn't a "one-size-fits-all" strategy, there are important financial steps you can prioritize as you start the divorce process. Ahead, we'll look at 8 financial steps you can take to help limit the impact divorce has on your future.

1. Assemble a team of trusted professionals

Before making any financial decisions, identify your own team of trusted professionals to help you navigate any complexities in the divorce process. A team might include professionals such as a divorce attorney, accountant, estate attorney and financial advisor, depending on your specific needs.

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2. Gather and organize important documents

Locate and make copies of important documents such as insurance policies (life, health, auto, and homeowners), property deeds, car titles/lease agreements, mortgage or home equity loan documents, federal and state tax returns from the past three years, and if applicable, wills, trusts, prenuptial agreements, and other estate planning documents (power of attorney, health care proxy, etc.).

3. Calculate your net worth

Gauge your financial health by determining your net worth. To calculate your net worth, subtract what you own (your assets) minus what you owe (your liabilities).

To get started, take inventory of the assets you and your spouse own (bank accounts, investment accounts, employer retirement and other executive compensation accounts, real estate, personal property, safe deposit boxes, etc.), then subtract your assets from your liabilities (mortgages, car loans, student debt, credit card debt, etc.).

This doesn't have to be a perfect calculation but be as comprehensive as you can so that you're well informed and prepared for any property and support negotiations.

Also, while looking over this list, consider what assets are most important to you, and which ones you're willing to give up. If you want the family home, understand that you will likely be fully responsible for the financial obligations entailed with keeping it after the divorce is settled.

4. Determine your overall living expenses

Calculate your monthly budget by subtracting your monthly expenses (fixed and lifestyle expenses) from what you make (your monthly income).

List your fixed expenses (food, utilities, mortgage, insurance costs, etc.) and lifestyle expenses (vacation, entertainment, clothing, memberships, etc.) and subtract those expenses from your current net income.

If you're the spouse that will need future support, having a clear number of what it costs to run your current household and maintain your lifestyle (and your children's, if applicable) is a critical figure for negotiations and future decisions.

Furthermore, if you're a non-working spouse and your health insurance is covered through your spouse's employer plan, investigate the additional cost of continued health care insurance coverage through COBRA (Consolidated Omnibus Budget Reconciliation Act) or an alternative like the federal healthcare marketplace or your state's own healthcare exchange.

5. Decide who pays for which expenses

The divorce process typically takes some time, and in the waiting period before the divorce is finalized, you'll have bills and expenses to pay. Know that joint financial obligations will continue to be the responsibility for both spouses until the divorce is finalized. Spouses may be able to negotiate their own arrangements, on their own or through mediation, which can then be formalized in court. Everyone's situation is different.

6. Open, review, and update accounts

Open a new individual checking account in your name and consider opening a new savings account as well. Use the new checking account for any purchases, deposits, and automatic payments going forward.

Remove your spouse as an authorized user on a credit card taken out in your name and/or remove yourself if you're an authorized user on their card. If you have a joint credit card account, you'll both likely have to contact the credit card company to cancel it.

You may consider obtaining a credit report from the credit bureaus to ensure there are no anomalies with your credit, and if you're concerned about your spouse opening new accounts in your name without your consent, you may consider freezing your credit.

Be aware of the ownership titling and holdings associated with each account. For joint investment and bank accounts, if you're concerned about your spouse withdrawing funds, you may consider informing the institutions that you're divorcing and request they freeze the account, as well as requiring your approval on any future transactions until a property settlement is determined.

Review and update your will and any other estate planning documents as necessary with an estate attorney.

7. Update passwords and beneficiaries

Consider changing your passwords and PINs on individual accounts, cards, subscriptions, and important logins to help secure your privacy.

As many accounts are paperless, if you don't have the passwords to access the accounts, list them as an open item to be filled in later.

Review all your individual account beneficiaries to ensure you have the proper beneficiary designations on your retirement plans, individual investment accounts, life insurance policies, and estate planning documents.

8. Create a new financial plan

Work with your financial advisor to prepare a financial plan so you can understand what your financial situation will look like today and in the future. As you walk through the divorce process and negotiations, you may need to make several updates to your plan as things change. Having a clear financial plan can help you make informed, data-driven and disciplined decisions during this very emotional time.

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This material is intended for general informational and educational purposes only. This should not be considered an individualized recommendation or personalized investment advice. The investment strategies mentioned are not suitable for everyone. Each investor needs to review an investment strategy for his or her own particular situation before making any investment decisions.

Investing involves risk, including loss of principal.

For illustrative purposes only. Individual situations will vary and are not the experience of any specific clients and are no guarantee of future performance or success.

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